What Women Really Want

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It has been said that when a man really loves a woman he can smell her enter a room before he can even see her.  A gift from our animal friends perhaps, I truly believe that when you are in love with another person all of our senses are heightened when it comes to that person.  But what do women really want? , who can answer that question?  It has been one that has been perplexing men for ages and just when you think that you have got it all figured out what happens, they go and change their minds.  Women are complex creatures and many times what they are saying is not what is meant.  For example say you are relaxing after dinner watching the game or whatever and your lady comes up to you and says that the trash need to be taken out.  This is a pretty obvious statement, she wants you to take out the trash now.  On the other hand if she comes to you with a problem about work, this is usually not a problem that she expects you to "fix".  Even if she tells you that some jerk at work is harassing her.   As men we are often times compelled to "fix" problems that plague our ladies and sometimes we feel emasculated if we are not able to help.  It's what we do, we are men what can we say.  But I assure you that when a woman comes to you with a serious problem that she is experiencing, she is not always asking for you to correct it.  Now don't confuse this situation to one when you are out together and some guy starts harassing her, this is a point when you flex your muscles a little bit.  Step in and DEFUSE the situation, and by defuse I don't mean to start a fight.  Simply end the situation and continue to enjoy your evening.

Women love a knight in shining armor and we love to provide that for our women, however we only tend to cover certain aspects of our knightly duties.  We love to slay the dragons or trek through the forest to save the princess, but we tend to forget about chivalry or making our princess feel like a princess.  These are still our knightly duties gentlemen.  It can sometimes be easy to find the girl of your dreams, but keeping the girl of your dreams takes some effort.

Last Updated (Saturday, 14 August 2010 20:29)

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5 Great First Date Ideas for the Thirty something

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Dating shouldn’t be that hard

The dating scene can be a tough one to navigate through and it sure doesn’t get any easier once you hit the big Three-Oh. You start to feel like maybe it will never happen, you are sick of going to your friends and family’s big day without any plans for yourself in sight. Then there is the dating, you sit awkwardly across from someone and simply try to find the most interesting things to talk about and if you like them then it gets really tough. Then you start to worry if your date is having a good time, if they like you, it, will there be a second date, it can be very stressful. Well I have come up with 5 great ideas that will make your next date go so smooth that you will wonder where the time went.

When you get to a certain age hopefully your priorities begin to change, and if you are still dating hitting a bar for the evening may not be one of them, especially on a first date. Instead plan a date that will provide you plenty to talk about, that is fun and some place to showcase your personality. A great place for that can be an aquarium. Try to go on a Saturday in the afternoon; this is great for two reasons. This will give you enough time to browse the exhibits and chat with each other. Want to make it real interesting sign up with a tour group and be the cut-ups in the back. The second reason is it will provide you with great dinner conversation, especially if your tour guide has to keep urging you to pay attention.

Last Updated (Sunday, 15 August 2010 10:10)

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